Bad experience in Swiss

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I had a bad experience in Swiss. If you want to try working there the first thing to do is to go to the cantonal Police. Don't do like me and don't start working before that, don't trust anyone but police. They say all about what is allowed, where to go and so on. You can have also a free medical checkup and vaccinum for epatite.I was tired and scammed of my life as street walker and I asked for an help to my local syndicate for SW. Here is not allowed to help a prostitute in her job so I had a vacuum indication: try in the italian language Swiss, it is legal there, check on the web, best wishes, bye! So I search on the web and…
I contacted the administrator of a website for sexworkers there (in Swiss) and he gived me the telephone number of 2 women renting homes for working. I called and talked with both. The first woman has no apartment (LOL) but she describes a fantastic situation. It seems I am going to rent an home in the busiest city of the planet......The second one has an home for me after a week I am waiting for a replay. Two rooms, bathroom also inside bedroom, plasma tv, internet, a kitchen and weekly cleaning service and all this in the best zone of the city. I got the address and I check it on google earth. I send money by post to her for confirming the home. Finally I go there. I meet a guy at the address of the apartment, the fac-totum and he drives me to the appartment. I ask for going at the police first but he says the rules have changed recently. We go to the home. The home is just one small room, I would like to say a cell, in the worst district of the city, totally different address. It has a small plate for cooking (but it works just one fire) and it is inside the bedroom. In the bathroom the light doesn't work. A small catodic tv(not plasma) and some horrible pictures at the wall with dried trees. The room costs 700week and not 850 like the 2 room home they promised. I give to the guy the cd with my pictures, money for the room and for the advice on his site. He makes me sign a piece of paper and he says this is my self report with police but it was not true. I take a shower and after dinner I started working. In 2 hours I did a lot of money. It worked fine for 4 days again but friday and saturday were too slow. Another strange thing after few days no one was able to call me in Swiss from Italy. I try to contact the guy of the site for deleting an important thing (he wrote it) but the guy says they are in Thai and they can't do nothing for me. So I come home in Italy but I come back a day later in Swiss. I say to myself I want to try another week. I contact the lady of the home to have back the keys of the home but she is busy.... In the same time I receive an offert for a placework in another city in Swiss. I don't know what to do. I stay in the street with my baggage and I have my lunch there. Fortunately I had an outside call from a regular and I did it my day. It seems there is nothing about me on the web so I accept the invitation for working in another city.....I spend all the day on the train....I peck the key I see the new home: 2 rooms, plasmatv, fantastic apartment, I take a shower but I realize there is a big problem.....there is not an entry-phone at home and I am at 5th floor.....!!...So I call the lady of the old apartment and I say I want to come back there and I have money for the advice on the web and for the apartment....She says OK, don't you worry, there is a train for here every 20 minutes at all times... but it was not true...I take the train....The train service stopped at 22 o clock and I had to spend all night long outside the railway station till 6am....and it was a railway station far from both apartment...to make it short I worked really bad, I spended all the money and I had to ask for money at home for the train...LOL...what a nightmare!...But I have been able to declare myself as prostitute at the police but it was too late. A lesson with a too high price. An advice is trust police only, ask to them for all. There is not an internet point there. Swiss is expehensive, a lot.
The bad side of the history is I had too vacuum info by the local SW syndicate here and also I would like to say misleading information.
The home I confirmed sending money was totally different by promises.
These persons in Swiss did it very difficult to go to the police station for my permission.
There is not an internet point there, if you don't have your pc then you are out.
You have no much control on what your adviceon web can be. They can write something you dislike.
Probably it has been the long hand of the police's contrast on my activity.
Kiss.

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Thanks for your report.

Very sad that you had so much trouble with apartment owners and police...

Sex work regulation is different from state to state (Kanton) within Switzerland.





Good help is provided by sex worker support organisations:
www.proKoRe.ch - ProKoRe Prostitution Kollektiv Reflextion, (sex worker run, possibly not very active)

Government funded:
www.aspasie.ch - Genf

www.verein-xenia.ch - Bern

www.fiz-info.ch - Zürich

www.Don-Juan.ch - Freieraufklärungsportal

www.sexworkInfo.net - Forschung





Country news archive: Switzerland (11 pages):
www.sexworker.at/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=932

e.g. Regulation in Zürich:
www.sexworker.at/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?p=83643#83643

Regulation Basel:
www.sexworker.at/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?p=88840#88840

Model contracts sex work for St.Gallen and Graubünden (see pdf download link):
www.sexworker.at/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?p=89310#89310
Zuletzt geändert von Marc of Frankfurt am 01.05.2011, 16:35, insgesamt 1-mal geändert.

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Dear mayats.I am so sorry that you made such a bad expirience in switzerland. thank you for your report i is ver interesting and shows the problems SW have ,when they want to work in europe.I myself love switzerland and live near the swiss-german boarder.It is getting more and more important that we arrive the same condition for SW all over europe. Even in germany you only need to change the town and the conditions are different.Everybody is speaking from europe, but i don´t see any effent made for us. It is time to work on this problem.best regards from Fraences
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fraences hat geschrieben:Everybody is speaking from europe, but i don´t see any effent made for us. It is time to work on this problem.
There are lots of bad effects for everybody - except greedy bankers who take the advantages of so called "Europe".

And how to work on this prob? Only realistic possibility seems to remove those who create the problem, and that would mean revolution.

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Let us revolt. May I carry the Red Flag in the front row?
Wer glaubt ein Christ zu sein, weil er die Kirche besucht, irrt sich.Man wird ja auch kein Auto, wenn man in eine Garage geht. (Albert Schweitzer)

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fraences hat geschrieben:May I carry the Red Flag in the front row?
Sure - I'm still wondering whether to prefer the Starry Plough or the Sunburst flag ...

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Here my working condiction is near to impossible for me. 10 years ago I started working as escort at home in my b/f 's home but I had a lots of problems with people around here. I was doing great money but I had to left... So I had to start a new activity.. I have been a webcam tg-girl for 6 years long but I had to left for terrible psycological and ambiental pressures. Simply I was becoming mad. Someone was in total control of my life....He was also able to discover some little world I was telling in the ear of my b/f during some intimate moment in a park during the night! He was able to discover every place I was going on and to prevent me with evident signals of that....for example writing on the wall a phrase regarding me....At a precious moment he was also able to discover my thoughes and I have been scared in the first moment but after this you become mad. You get angry... Life becomes a giant jail, with not visible iron bars and you don't know how to get out of there and where to go..there is no exit.. you have no privacy, no life...it has been terrible...And you ask to yourself how the hell someone can do that? Maybe someone puted a micro radio inside my mouth???...but not only this...I can not talk at all now!..
Now I am a street walker. but I am costantly thrheatened to left the street. I already have been beaten, I had sexual violence without condom, I have been robbed. One night I have been chased by some very violent guys while I was driving to home. Fortunately there was enought oil inside my car. I had to call Carabinieri and after a while they were there with 5 cars!!. It has been very difficult talking at the phone while I was driving like that. OMG what a nightmare. The streets were desert! Fortunately the bad guys have been not able to open my car but they were really violent.
It is just me having this because all girls have a plate. This is why I want to left my country. I tryed starting a different activity but sometimes I had to left for stalking. I also accept common job. Last year I have been a car driver for my TS sisters and it has been really nice...Tomorrow it is another day and I have bad stomache when I think to the Street. I can not stay during the day time because someone promised to shot me. So boring because I was doing good money.
Now I start reading because I am writing too much. Kiss.

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mayats hat geschrieben:He was able to discover every place I was going on and to prevent me with evident signals of that....for example writing on the wall a phrase regarding me....At a precious moment he was also able to discover my thoughes ...
No offence intended, but that might be signs of some psychiatric condition. Please get this checked, for if it is, your flight to another country won't help and might even harm you.

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Yes I understand your feeling.....No, I am not mad at all or at least I am still in control of myself. I don't belive in coincidences so when a coincidence happens too often something strange is around....and this strange stalking activity was clear also for my bf and friends too....and it started in a precious moment I can not talk of...It has been painfull, so please....
For sure someone was driving me to madness but fortunately I have been able to stay in control of myself...I was not able to explain a lot of strange things to myself but it was evident the coincidences around that. For example one night I was talking about that with my bf. Someone, I say, want to make me feel oppressed and controlled but who can do that? it seems a 007's moovie. One of these day I ll meet the dwarf from China want to kill me....LOL...Do you remember the moovie? Goldfinger or Diamonds are forever?
The day later as on as I go out of my home I meet a little guy taking care of the hedge in the street out of here but he was a dwarf from China....belive me, it was not funny at all living in the planet of coincidences.
A last thing I want to add is that often people like me in Italy are forced into psychiatric care so please...be comprehensive. Immagine who I can ask for an help to...when a group stalkers is mooving around me...
I like to do sport and I run every day, I do my exercises, I love biciclet...mens sana in corpore sano.... kiss.

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Arg!....this morning there is a security car exactely in the place I was trying to work in daytime...so boring!
Kiss.